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alright so here's the thing.. there's this girl that i like A LOT!! and we go to the same school, last weekend there was a party and we talked and stuff, i can see her glance her eyes at me sometimes.. but the thing is, she has a boyfriend.. i can feel it that she's curious.. but its just so complicated and we don't have any classes together, its just like this teasing around when we're drunk and stuff, but like right now.. i simply can't stop thinking about her, what should i dooooo :(?
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Is she has a boyfriend, don’t do it. think about it: if she does have a boyfriend and you do get together, you’ll never trust you because if she can cheat on her boyfriend And leave him for you— then she could do the same thing to you. NOW- IF they break up(for their own reasons, you not being one of them-) id say then you can start talking about how you feel I’d say that would be more appropriate (:


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it's been months! answer more questions please :)
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I’m on it grey face! ;-)


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what do u think of a mature entrance into friends with benefits with a complete undersanding of zero expectations?
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Good luck with that! From my experience, someone usually gets feelings, and it doesn’t work- period. Buy if you want to try it, I’m not to say that it won’t work, it’s just that when people become intimate, feelings usually happen- its human nature. Unless you’re not a human??:P JK but id for surrrre think twice! Good luck!


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idk if you still do questions on here, but im in grade 12,which means im 17 18 in june, and there is this teacher who is new this year, and she is the most beautiful woman i have ever seen and her mind is flawless and her smile could light up an entire universe, my problem is, i have a huge crush on her and i can never stop thinking about her, and every time she talks to me my face turns very very red, but shes my teacher right, so what do i do???? please please help me!!!!
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Ha ha hah :-) I recommend watching the movie quotes learning in a bell” on Netflix ;-) On the real, It is very crucial that you do not act on your feelings for your teacher at all, because she couldn’t get in a lot of trouble! But after you graduate high school and she is no longer your teacher— go for it!!!! ;D


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I need some advice, please. How do you go about meeting people when out of your group of friends, you're the only one whos gay. I don't want to ask all my friends to go to a gay club with me so I can try to meet someone. But there's a gay village where I live but I don't really want to go there randomly on my own. So any advice on how to meet people on a daily bases? Thank you
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It’s sad, but the Internet seems to be a prime place for people to meet. But I don’t think it’s a bad thing… Especially in our community, it seems to be the way to meet people who are also gay and open about it. Google sites that have a location description for you to find others in your community. Start talking to them online first( maybe Skype make sure they are real) and then arrange a meet up. I hope this helps, Much love, True


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hi true, i dig this girl and i don't know how to go about telling her how i feel. we joke around a lot, and i just want her to take me seriously. she's always telling me i'm really pretty and we do flirt in a joking way, how do i know when she's being serious? i'm such a dozy melt and i can't read signals haha any advice? thanks (:
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Hi sweetie! This seems to happen to a lot of people… If you want to see if the friendship can go further the best way is to lightheartedly ask her if she “has ever maybe thought about you too together.” Since it seems to be that she is the kind of person who jokes around about her feelings. I say if she flirts with only you then you know it’s a true connection. But if she has a flirtatious nature then maybe it is all innocent and you may want to be careful about approaching. I wish you the best of luck! Much love, True


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my girl has been tearin herself apart because she likes some guy&he likes her too but she knows she loves me. she doesnt see datin a guy&girl at the same time cheating. i do&she knows that. she asked me if id support her in datin both of us, i told her that all i want is for her to be happy&if havin both of us makes her happy i will support her. shes doin better but now im tearin myself appart. i hurt all the time and it never stops. i dont know what to do. id rather her be happy than me...help?
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If you have an agreement to have an open relationship then it’s not cheating. But if it hurts you for her to date someone else that probably means you are not the kind of person who wants to be in an open relationship. So if that is the case and you are hurt then I would say she has to either make a choice between you two or you need to terminate the relationship because Ultimately you will get hurt.


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do you think it's a bad idea to keep a friendship going when you start to have feelings for that person? Like attraction, when you're already in a relationship with someone incredible. sometimes it seems better for me not to have any friends bcs my girl gets jealous of that person. i find it scary to be friends with anyone.. bcs i'm afraid i might start to feel attracted to that person and i don't know how to handle it. help? thanks True.
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I don’t think it’s bad as long as you are aware that if you do not tell the person that you had the feeling that eventually you may get hurt. I think it is important to tell people how you feel even though it may jeopardize the friendship because if you don’t you always wonder “what if.”


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What kind of songwriting are you doing now? Will you be sharing some of your songs via YouTube? :) you have a beautiful talking voice, I'm excited to hear your singing voice. Do u hope to sell your music too?
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I mostly just write and play/record for myself (no youtube videos). But I recently performed at the Satellite in LA. with my band “Beautiful Chaos” that I formed at LA Ladies Rock Camp. It was such a positive experience that I’m now working towards performing at small venues. So we’ll see where it goes from there :)


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Would you be taken aback should someone with self-harm scars on their arm or arms, or wherever, approach you and start making small talk? Would you be hesitant to approach someone with the aforementioned?
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Not taken aback, no. I would honestly probably not even mention . As far as me approaching someone, if its a group setting, or social event, I would if I felt pulled to that person, I don’t think that would effect my approach. 


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So tell us about your film career. What are your plans, hopes, dreams??
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Thanks for asking :) I’m currently working on networking and classes/building a reel, making the right connections, seeking better representation and being inspired daily! I heart is also desiring to get more into the LA music scene doing open mic nights, joining a variety of bands, song writing, etc :) My hopes and dreams is as always to try and bring my soul to life and share that in performing arts, connecting my inner most thoughts and ideas with others <3


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My ex and I have been broken up for a year now and part of me is still in love with her. And I think that she may still have feelings for me too. I just know we're both too prideful to put ourselves out there. Should I try and talk to her or should I just move on?
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I think one of the worst things that anyone can do is live with regrets. In saying that, no I don’t think a year is too long to tell someone you’re still in love with them. If you love her still (even if you weren’t sure if the feelings were the same) you owe it to your heart to tell her, because one day you’ll wake up, and wish you had. I promise you that. Look at it this way; the worst thing that could happen is that she doesn’t feel the same- in which case- that is okay too because now you have freed your heart and the universe will be able to conspire a new love, a richer love, just for YOU. Please tell her, and let me know :) Best of luck, much love, True



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Hi True,You may or may not remember me; I messaged you a while ago about finding myself and my desire to travel. I just anted to say thank you. I have traveled across Canada and plan on continuing to travel and further my education in he U.S next year. I am working toward an academic scholarship / basketball scholarship somewhere in the states. I want to say thank you for being honest, your words matter. Thank you!Cloe
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Glad I could help… it was all you though! Congrats!!  :D


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Hee True, just wanted to tell you, that your Tumblr really cheered me up today. Yesterday was my first day of College and I found all these changes and new things really hard. But then I saw your tumblr with all these nice pictures and words and it really helped me to move on. I now it will be hard, but I will survive and come out stronger. And deep within I already knew this, but your tumblr made me realize it today. So thanks and I hope you have a wonderfull day! Love Sanne
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Aw thank you Sanne! I’m so happy to hear I was able to shed some light into your life < 4